Lo0k !!!~

THIS BLOG IS DEDICATED 

TO

 MY 4 LEVEL HOSTEL GIRLS.

WITH LOVE,

yours truly- a.mAl 

I've seen, I've heard, I've felt

what friendship is.

And every time, it's different.

i've SEEN that it is universal....

i've heard it's hurtful.....

i've felt it's wonderful..

see ??? it's different.

for the last 4 years in my life living in a hostel,

with a bunch of crazy friends,,,

it's fun to be friends with everyone.

that's my point of view.

but after a few spanks of friendship conflicts,

i knew that not ALL my friends take it that way...

they befriends with people,

they become close friends and declare they're

BEST FRIENDS.

I respect that but i'm not totally into it.

I think the title 'best friends' are total universal.

so then i can be friends with everyone.

it's simple AND complicated.

but...

SOME people like to make it MORE complicated.

their 'best friends'

are only an AMOUNT of people.

small amount : 2 people (BESTIES) 

medium amount : 3-8 people (A GROUP)

bigger amount : 9-14 people (A BATCH)

so,,, which one is the best ?

all of it.

Get it ?

ALL.

okay, before you hate me,hear me out,

being close with some specific friends is good,

it's a MUST in Islam

but TOO CLOSE, can cause some serious damage...

because scientifically,

humans are easy to get bored 

with things they are always with.

example :

you got the teddy bear you've always wanted

and held it ever since.

2 years after.. you throw it away.

Because there's no distance between you and teddy.

then when you lose it,

"LOVE GROWS WHEN YOU'RE APART"

ever heard of it ???

i'm not telling you to sit far apart from each other

i'm just saying it could be like this if you're TOO CLOSE :

'hey,lets go to the mall'

'we just went there last week'

'ok... where to then ?'

'i dont know. we've been everywhere together'

DON'T.

That's why it's better to befriends with everyone.

from a guy friend i have,

he thinks that friendship is total.

And he proved it.

He was eating chocolate and his friend wanted some.

He didnt have any left.

so he pulled out the last piece of it from his mouth,

he gave it to his friend.

His friend ate it and thanked him.

I was awe-strucked.

He said it was because of 

it's weird, i thought.

I intended to ignore it,

but then another guy wrote to his friend,

"Thanks for supporting me, 

even though i was a total weak.

You have been a great friend.

Hope to see you in heaven.

Us together."

A guy admitting being a TOTAL WEAK 

and THANKING his friend

and HOPING to see each other 

TOGETHER in heaven.

now that.......

is total.

now GIRLS, 

have you got something to say ???

think again.